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From Panic to the Podium: How I Transformed Anxiety Into a Speaking Career

October 20, 2025 by Ben Aldridge

🧠 A Former Anxious Wreck Turned Keynote Speaker

Public speaking used to terrify me. Not in a butterflies-before-a-talk kind of way. I’m talking full-blown panic attacks and overwhelming anxiety…

Now, I stand on stages across the world speaking about Stoic philosophy, mental resilience, and how to step outside your comfort zone to change your life.

So… what happened?

🌀 Discomfort Became My Training Ground

What changed wasn’t magic—it was mindset.
I discovered the concept of askesis: the ancient Greek practice of deliberate discomfort. This was used by Stoics and Cynics to build mental strength by intentionally seeking out challenges.

Inspired by this, I began experimenting with my own discomfort training:

  • Cold showers and ice baths

  • Walking barefoot out in the wild

  • Facing my fear of needles through acupuncture

  • Running marathons

  • Embarrassing myself (on purpose!) with awkward jokes to strangers

The result?
I rewired my brain’s relationship to fear. I turned anxiety into fuel.

🎤 How Speaking Became My Greatest Therapy

As I built more resilience, I started writing. My first book, How to Be Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable, opened doors I never expected.

Soon, I found myself invited to speak. At first, the idea was terrifying. But leaning into that fear—just like the other challenges—became its own kind of training.

Now, I speak on stages, in corporate settings, and at global events about:

  • Overcoming anxiety through discomfort

  • Mental health as a trainable skill

  • Applying ancient philosophy in the modern world

  • Stoicism and CBT in daily life

And here’s what’s wild: the very thing I deeply feared has become the thing I deeply love. Speaking connects. Speaking heals. Speaking activates.

💬 Why I Speak

I speak because I know what it feels like to feel stuck, small, and overwhelmed.
And I know what it feels like to claw your way back.

Every talk I give is a reminder: resilience isn’t genetic—it’s built.
And even the most anxious among us can become the most impactful voices in the room.

🧭 Looking for a Speaker on Mental Resilience, Stoicism, or Mental Health?

If you’re looking for a motivational speaker with a deeply personal story and practical tools, I’d love to connect.

I blend ancient wisdom, modern psychology, and humour to deliver talks that are both inspiring and immediately applicable.

Whether it's a corporate keynote, mental health event, school workshop, or festival talk, I’m always excited to share the message that changed my life.

➡️ Contact me for bookings and availability

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